You Can or You Can’t (Beliefs)!

It’s your beliefs, which shapes your destiny. Learning how to engage your mind to support growth is the secret of life. Of course the secret of life is not a secret at all.  Several Gurus like Buddha and Jesus have been telling us the same story for ages. Several breakthrough researches have been done in last several year on mind and human psychology.

Now science is also supporting in the same direction. Human being is not controlled by genes (earlier thought) but through beliefs. These beliefs only control your lives. ‘How do you think’ about several dimensions of life, create the difference between success & failure.

“Your beliefs become your thoughts Your thoughts become your words Your words become your actions Your actions become your habits Your habits become your values Your values become your destiny.”– Mahatma Gandhi

It all start with BELIEFS and leads to DESTINY.

These beliefs, which generally sink in your mind up to age of seven year, control 90 % of our life unconsciously. Many a time these beliefs are false but still they are powerful enough to control your life. To change these false & limiting beliefs, you need to replace them with more powerful beliefs, which are true, based on statistic facts & researches.

These beliefs affect each dimension of our life, be it personal, professional, spiritual, social, financial etc. As there are so many dimension, so we are going to discuss financial life here.

Because financial life is one, by which each and every other dimensions are connected. I hope most of you will agree with me. We cannot pay out electricity bill, children education fee by some spiritual mean, we need money for that.

One of my life’s mission is to bring changes in financial life of millions of people by changing their false & limiting beliefs about money. And I hope you are with me to change your own life and at the same time to spread these factful messages to your friends and loved ones.

How do we take actions based on Beliefs!

You are planning to buy a car. If you are feeling that your next car will be a low cost car, then you are having a one set of thought process. But if you are feeling for high cost car, then you are in different set of thought process.

Actually peoples do their buying much before in mind than to get that product physically. Following can be the thought process scenarios in your mind-

Scenario 1:  Cash is not the concern, then you will simply go to car showroom and purchase your car as per your choice. Be it low cost, medium cost or high cost.

Scenario 2: If you are having limited budget & in your family purchasing of only new product is preferred, then situation may be different. Though you are wishing to have good car, but you’ll go for low cost car.

Scenario 3: Budget is limited, but good second hand car is not at all a discussion point in your family, the you can have that. You are not wishing to have second hand car, but due to budget limitation you are taking that decision. Later, once you have sufficient budget you will definitely go for new high cost car.

Scenario 4: Not having sufficient fund this time, but want to have good car and only new one. Now in this case you will either increase your earning means or simply follow loan system. But remember, loan is good for asset purchasing not for liability purchase. 

So, what am I saying here is there are always multiple choice to approach in any situation. In some choices we play safe and within our comfort zone and in other we cross our comfort boundary.

Not all the time rich people buy new product!

One of my colleague was from highly rich family, whenever I talk to him, I wonder why is he doing job. He used to come by bikes or cars to company from very early days.

One day he came with beautiful superbike. On that day he receive a lot of greetings as his bike was having stunning look. Later one day, I ask him cost of that bike. He said, it cost him around 9 lakhs. Other day I was searching that bike on google, I found that cost around 19 lakhs. It was a bit surprise, how can that person was not telling the correct price.

After few days, I shared with him about my google search, he smiled and said, ‘though my bike looks like just arriving from showroom, but I purchased that in second hand’.

Make better choices for financial life

As we are having multiple options to act in any given situation. How we make final choices is driven by our beliefs and the environment we live.

Majority time we act like our parents or guardian who are having good influence on us. If we have seen most of our relatives or friend buying cars using loan, then quite a good chance that we shall go with loan options.

But if we have seen them as a business creator, from which money pourin regularly, then we shall soon be like them only.

We many time limits ourselves to grow financially in spite of knowing the fact that there are several thousand self-made millionaire in world. Also across world, out of total billionaires, more than 70 % billionaires are self-made. ($1 billion > ₹7000 crore)

So, point is we need to shun limiting beliefs about money and replacing them with abundance beliefs. I personally used this for trading around 4.5 months. Before starting trading, I asked some of my friends that what is their net portfolio, the answer was that in some shares there is very good or good profit and in others it is loss. Overall hardly one or two who was having their portfolio in positive.

Before starring, I mentally prepared myself that I shall only make profit in trading. I asked good practices to some of the people, who were doing good in trading. Few of them given some personal advice and also suggested weekly magazines for trading. Believe me friend, during that period, my portfolio was always on positive side. Later I sold most of my stocks and invested that money in other stream.

Overall it’s your mind, which act as per your beliefs, your thought processes. It’s subconscious power is so powerful that it can turn any dimension of your life into heaven or hell. So keep feeding good thought, positive thoughts, abundance thought to mind always, it’s subconscious power will reflect the same in reality.

“If a hundred-foot oak tree had the mind of a human, it would only grow to be ten feet tall!”– T. Harv Eker