There are three type of people in the world, one who talks about other people, second type people talk mostly about incidents and third type of people are the one who talk about new things. There are people to whom if you talk, you feel high energy. Similarly there are other type, if you talk with them, you will feel energy drained. When I was doing my engineering, there was one school nearby. One day I was walking with my friend there, I show something interesting, each class room door was having one written quotes. I read several quotes there, but one quote which flash in memory frequently was about above type of people. We shall understand the impact of each group on us & which type of group is highly successful.
Group1:People who talk about other!
Whenever we meet these type of people, they are ready with several stories about other people. They know almost all the celebrities be it actor / actress / Player / Politician and their upcoming movies, series, movement, vacation location etc. They feel proud to have all this information but they forget that, they are now trapped by their subconscious mind. How it works, if you are doing some good work in mobile or computer like reading or some online courses, and if some ad pop-up for any particular celebrity, they simply click that as they are following that celebrity and they need news. After watching complete ad or trailer, they realise that they were doing some other important work just before that ad. If they are following any particular film industry celebrity, they never miss any news article about them and feel proud in that.
But what happened during this time, they lost good amount of productive time. Then they decide not to do it again, but you know the result! This situation continued unless they break the pattern and develop new pattern. Like if ad pops-up, they need to ask to themselves to ignore it and focus on the important work. If this continue for few time, message goes to subconscious mind that do not entertain such ad in future while doing some important work.
Group2: People who talk about Incident/event!
This group people is slightly better than previous one. They generally do not talk about peoples but talk about some breaking news, incidents be it positive or negative or any other. They will talk about update on ongoing cricket series or upcoming series, world cup schedule, movie/ series review, PM’s foreign visit, specific incident in city, state, share market etc. They know which was the winning team & who the man of the match in particular match series. They are well aware about the fire in Australian Jungle, even the no of days it lasted.
These peoples, we can call him one short of encyclopaedia of all such stuff. They doesn’t care whether this is or will be useful for them in any way in life. They are also trapped by their subconscious mind. If these people are reading newspaper, their SCM will direct them towards such news. They are happy to know all these news and share them frequently. Mostly people lies in this particular group.
Group3:People who talk about New Ideas/Things!
The people in this group are very limited in numbers. Whenever you meet this group people, you learn/gain something. They mostly talk about new ideas or new things. They will tell you about the book from which they have learnt some important and useful lesson. Whenever you are having any issue, you prefer to discuss with him for solution. They will discuss about the new technology which can transform the life of peoples. This group of peoples always think big and have abundance.
They will discuss about benefit of Electrical Vehicles, hydrogen fuel technology. They will tell you how to become efficient at workplace, how to manage time, how to manage work-life balance. You wish to spend good amount of time with this group peoples.
When they are having difficulties, they workout the solution by them self or by involving other expert of that field. They can share with you why some particular company is always making profit. It’s not that they are absolutely not talking about other people or Incident/Events, they talk but very limited. Their subconscious mind provide them information according to their choice because they become habitual for this type of stuff.
Way Ahead
So, you are in which group? If you are spending your most of the time in first & second group activities, then it’s the time to change. If you continue there, you will face growth issues in life. It’s always wishful to be there in third group. For being there in third group, you have to follow certain discipline like when you are talking about other people / Incident / Event, then stop immediately & engage yourself in third group activities.
It’s not easy to be there in third group, for that you need to put extra effort. As we all know we are having limited knowledge about several important aspect of life. Then if we are not putting our effort to gain that knowledge either through education, through expert in that field, through books then we shall not be able to jump in third group. When we feed good thoughts/ new thoughts to our mind continuously, then our subconscious mind only support us & show the way ahead. With new ideas / new thought you can the creator of any product or service be it small or big. If it’s initially small, you can grow it big with these useful thoughts.
If these peoples are at powerful position, they use advance technologies for improving their business performance in all aspects. They use it for improving productivity, reducing cycle time, reducing cost, managing harmony with all at workplace as well as at home. All their action are oriented towards growth. They are having good financial status or if not at early stage they attain that very soon.
“You Can Develop Any Habit Or Thought Or Behaviour That You Consider Desirable Or Necessary.” –Brian Tracy
