Most of our beliefs and thoughts from the world, were formed during period start at 4.5 month in womb to 7 years after birth, when most learnings were subconscious. Child learn maximum till the age of 7 years by observing environment, parents, siblings, friends, teachers etc. This is the period their consciousness has not started developing but subconscious is working at peak.
All the thoughts, beliefs stored till this age impact life of these children lifelong. Many of the beliefs which children understood as true, may not be true.
Learning from Parents
Young children carefully observe their environment and download the worldly wisdom offered by parents directly into their subconscious memory. As a result, their parents’ behaviour and beliefs become their own. Most of the time, parents are also not aware about this fact that, each and every thing which they are doing, will impact the life of their children.
If child has seen our parents in struggle throughout this early stage, then struggle become part of his/her life also. Even when they become adult & start earning good, their subconscious mind will provide situations where they will feel struggle. If things are going well at business or at workplace, then struggle may start at family relationship or with friends. Any one aspect of life will most of the time have this struggle feeling. This is how our subconscious mind works. It keep on creating situation, which you always have in your mind. What you have in your mind is struggle!
If child learn from parents to solve the problems, he/she become the master of solving problems. Now we all know world is full of several type of problems, and only few peoples are there who are in the business of solving the problem. Result, you can create a great fortune! There are several successful people, who has learned this skill at very early stage in life and used that skill to create business like Bill Gates (American Business Magnet), Dhirubhai Ambani (Indian Tycoon).
One more important thing happen, when we have caring and visionary parents, the parents who were not having opportunities, but want their children to do the things which children want. The point is, those intention must be clear at early stage of childhood. Like if we see Sachin Tendulkar (Indian Cricketer), we also remember his childhood image with cricket bat.
Middle/ Lower class kids sees their parents in scarcity of money. For each small or big things, money does not come easily. Whenever they ask their parents for toy or cycle or pizza, the answer is ‘Beta Abhi Nahi, Abhi Paise Kam Hain’ (Kid, not this time, we are short of money) or parents suppress that demand completely. When such words come from parents, this kid understand that money is not an easy thing. Or some other words come as ‘Paise Ped Par Nahi Ugte’ (Money doesn’t grow on tree).
Who say this, it is really ridiculous! Money grow on tree, but that tree you need to plant. That tree can be any business system, rental property, anything, which bring you money. If nothing left to say, then this is the last taunt ‘Paisa Hi Sabhi Pareshani Ke Jadh Hai’ (Money is the root of all the problem). Now this dialogue is like last nail in the coffin, as this kid will never earn good amount of money, because it has belief that if he/she earn good amount of money, he/she will have also have problem associated with this money.
If we can not fulfil, our children’s wish, it’s ok as there must be some genuine reason for that. But for God sake don’t give negative thoughts / disempowering thoughts about money because these thoughts will create issue for his lifelong. Believe me, many people have not understood in there lifetime, why they were not successful financially in spite earning good, why most of the time they were having issues.
Now, what rich kids learn from their parents? They have learnt systems of making money by seeing their parents or other family members. For them money was never a problem, it was flowing freely in family. And you might have noticed that the rich kids, may not be good at study or sport but there are high level of chances that they are good at making money or minting money. Middle / lower class think that they (rich kids) are enjoying life on their parents money, but many a time reality is different. They are making good amount of money for themselves as they have learnt that skill unconsciously in their early age. And this unconsciousness helping them to attain their financial goals. Once you are financially capable, you can solve not all but most of the problem with money. Same logic of subconscious mind apply here, whatever they had seen in childhood is controlling their life. They have understood business concept as a system, if that system is in place, money will pour in. So even if they are not good at academic, but they are good at developing business system, which generate money. By this time, you might have recalled some of the rich kids, which were there in your class. Some of them were not good at exam, but now doing may be better than you financially.
So, dear parent don’t have guilt for understanding this logic of subconscious mind so late, now you have understood this. From now onwards you can guide your children or grandchildren to change their money limiting beliefs and replacing those belief with financial abundance beliefs. Whatever you keep in your mind, become realty one day. So, fill your mind with peace, harmony, faith, joy, honesty, integrity, loving kindness and gentleness; then you will be sowing for you treasures in the heavens of your own mind.
“God is the source of my supply. His riches flow to me freely, copiously, and abundantly. All my financial and other needs are met at every moment of time and point of space; there is always a divine surplus.”— Joseph Murphy